“You search for someone whom you believe will make you feel whole. Instead, however, what you attract to yourselves is someone who reflects your own feeling of lack of wholeness. And you each reflect the same to each other. Thus you look for a guarantee that your “other half” will not leave you. However, if you know you are attracting exactly what you need to attract, you will be committed to that relationship – exactly as you need to be, for the time you need to be. If and when it should change in various ways, you will change with it.”