The thing that most seizes you up, binds you up, is your willingness to attempt the impossible…which is trying to perceive yourself through the eyes of somebody else. And then trying to adjust their perception of you…because you don’t like what you think they think of you, so you go to adjust their perception … talk about being out there in the weeds. You know why you really want to start paying attention to the idea of unconditional love? Because you aren’t going to find it out there in the conditions. There’s too many moving parts. It just keeps your energy in too much chaos.